HOW TO TRUST YOUR GUT WHEN ACCEPTING OFFERS
So you’ve had a few interviews, met with the hiring manager, and now they’re offering you a job—congratulations! While this is an exciting moment, it’s crucial to reflect on whether the role truly aligns with your career goals and personal values.
When I was job hunting at one point in my career, I came across an incredible opportunity that felt like my dream job. The interview process was challenging—I navigated three online rounds of interviews—but soon enough, they presented me with a job offer. This wasn't just any offer; they were willing to give me a six-figure salary, complete with all-expenses-paid monthly work trips to Toronto. I was ecstatic; however, I didn’t end up taking it!
The following week, I was set to meet everyone at their downtown office, sign the paperwork, and get to know the team. You might be thinking, "How could I not take it?" But in all honesty, it just wasn’t the right fit for me. When I arrived at the office and met everyone, I quickly sensed that I wouldn’t be fulfilled working there. I knew this opportunity wasn’t what I wanted, and I realized that, in the long term, I would feel drained and depleted, and that I wouldn’t be happy.
I walked out of there, called the Human Resources Director, and kindly told her, "Thank you, but no thank you." Do I regret it? No, and that’s my honest answer because I’ve learned that money isn’t everything when it comes to job satisfaction. A few weeks later, I received another offer that was more aligned with what I was looking for long term.
My advice to you is to listen to your gut when accepting a job offer—your instincts are rarely wrong. If something feels off or you sense it’s not the right fit, don’t settle. You are worth more. You might be thinking, "But Sandra, money is tight, and I need something to help pay my rent." In that case, I suggest accepting the job temporarily, until you find something that truly aligns with your values and career goals.
When you settle, you’re communicating the belief that you don’t deserve the job you truly want. It’s important to take the time to reflect on what really matters to you in a job—Is it the working environment, the growth opportunities, or the company culture?
Each job we have is a stepping stone in our careers, and when we find ourselves in roles where we are unhappy, it’s essential to recognize why we feel that way. The right job is out there for you, not only because it meets your financial needs but also because it brings you joy and satisfaction. You just have to be patient and open enough to find it!